Is it Worth being one ???

hi Folks ... Back after really long long time ... The topic is bit strange .. but i find it still very senstive and point to be dicussed... A feeling true from heart ... Is it worth being a virgin before marriage ???

Disclaimer : For ppl who consider this not fitting them, please ignore as i dnt want to hurt any personal sentiments.Its just a pure opinion from my heart and has nothin to do to hurt others.

I hpnd to talk to some females online who hpnd to b a perfect bitch.They are married but still sleeping with folks they meet in office, in pubs and there is one female who is a teenager and happens to sleep any third guy she meets.. that female says (who says she s from chennai) has many friends whom she know happens to be sleeping with guys since college days ... Now at this point i was wondering if this s the situtation at 2007, wat will be the situation @ 3 - 4 yrs from now ? how will the generation b which comes next to me ? Now if the females are losing there virginity at 18 , wat should i expect from a girl who becomes my wife..

As kushboo said "educated fellows should not expect their wife to be virgin" tat moment even i had some irritating opinion abt kushboo .comments . but now after meeting these few ladies n nline like this, i really consider a change of my opinion and i think we should go lite with this .. Please im not sayin all girls or ladies like this , Im just tryin to point out that this type of cases are GROWING AT ALARMING LEVELS ..

Now my point is till date im a boy who has been thinkin abt career and have felt tat having a gf itself doesnt fits my family .. having sex b4 marriage s sin acording to me . but is it worth it ?? At the current rate, will i end up in bed being virgin and other person having experienced ... end of day i happened to become a dumb a** ..

Few of my friends have had sex , and they are quite cool abt it .. Wnt their heart kill them of guilt, when they get married ?? How will u feel if ur wife has slept with some one ?

Once i was askin my friend " is it worth being a virgin" he said " every one s a virgin due to circumstances" tats true in fact .. had someone got an oppurtunity no one would be perfect .

but being perfect is due to personal char which says "this s wrong dnt go to tat place" so u kindah avoid cin such things which is wat keeps u better and single.

i tell my friends " we have remained this way so long lets not take a chance for another 2 yrs b4 we get married" For me my heart will kill me if i do such a thing.... i cant face my parents and most imp i cant face god to whom i have to answer my sins :) .... So lets c future will show . I dnt bother if its worth or not . I have been a virgin and will be a virgin till marriage ... (dnt ask me wen s my marriage :D tat god knows :D hope he doesnt keeps me waiting too long n tat aspect ;) )

I will tell u one single reason y we need to be virgin . " Cz we need to b differnt from a 5 sense creature" . dog has sex with every female dog its sees and we are humans and have 6 senses which tells us which s good and bad. So atleast for the sake of differentiating ourself from a dog , It's better we stick to our culture :) ..