Post ENGAGEMENT!!!!Friendship ka haal???

Ha ha .. i rather consider this topic quite funny though it sounds serious.. reasons are there ...

till date i have had friends of my age ... so all were bachelors (eligible bachelor's i should say :)) ..

When i moved from my first company to second.. i could find good friends but all were older than me .. old enough to get married :) ...

one of my close friend from the new company ... we have went together for lunch .. sat in beach together for hours watchin the babes walking ..commented .. laughed at them.. showed jealously towards the guys having Girl Friends .. :) ...

Have went out to movies together ... He got engaged recently ... then things changed ... first i started going for lunch alone .. then coffee .. then dinner ... and finally he couldnt even find time to sit n beach for half an hour .. nothin wrong .. he was without a GF for all these days .. so suddenly one interesting turning point in his life ... :) no probs ..

office he talks to her in phone .. lunch he goes to her house ... evening coffee he goes there ... dinner he skips mostly to talk to her in tat time . .. wat caused this sudden change ... wat happens to people mind ...

Cant he spend a coffee session atleast with friends .. does friends bcome take it for granted once we get a fiancee ???? are all like that ??? or some change like tat ???? who knows wat will i do .. may b i will turn out to one like tat in future ... :) ..

another interesting matter ... one of my friend from prev office (he shares the same name as the previous :D ) ... he has a friend ..i know both of them .. i know they are quite GOOD friends for long time ... my friend recently got his fiancee .. double side love ... fine .. good .. best wishes to him ... but these days he doesnt have time to talk to his friend.. whom he has known for YEARs ..... and neither does the latter contacts the former ... ego or something i dont know .. but friendship is not tat close as it was ...who is to be blamed here?? the girl ??or the guy who doesnt know to strike a balance between friends and wife ... or nature which changes people ....

Long time friendship turns out to ashes in two days ... y??? do they still rem'ber that we still consider them as same old friend ... do they care the same as they used to ?????

lots of questions strike my mind .. but i dont know the answer this time ... may b i got to wait .. i mite the know the answer after i get engaged!!! :) ... so till then let me keep guessing!!!!!!!