Vickraman V.P

Trying to find myself ....

Friday, January 11, 2008

Hurdles come not to stop U , but to make u stronger!!!

Hi Folks back after a long long time.

for ppl who understand tamizh"Tholviyum konjam vennum adi, vetri ku athuvey eni adi"
Translated roughly

"U have to lose sometimes, it's the stepping stone for success"

These lines are from a very good song n which is very close to my heart, to which i listen when im feeling emotionally very low n sad :)

A very meaningful n powerful line i should say!!!!

Winning, i should say is a DISEASE. Once u start winning u tend to become arrogant n ignorant. Though it mite not apply to everyone but sure does apply for 80% of human beings.

Thats y god created something called LOSING! Its to always to make u feel "DNT WORRY LIFE CAN FLIP EITHER SIDE!"

Sometimes u lose due to ur own mistake and sometimes u lose due to others mistake !!!

Sometimes u put so much efforts into something when its in the reach of ur hands u c it being grabbed by someone or snatched by someone for some totally weird and unacceptable reasons.
u tend to get low, so low tat u mite lose sleep. Ur Brain will say "common buddy it happens".
But u know, its very difficult to convince ur heart and its very difficult to convince when it loses something for which ur not responsible for :)

I have passed thro such a exp twice in my life so far. I had something, which is very very close to my heart, in the reach of my hand but i was hopelessy made to fail due to someone's else mistake !!!! I c it's being grabbed away from me but im helpless! i shout for help but i end up cin that im still helpless.

During Bad times, i remind myself of those lines from the song. Im losing coz im going to win something g8.
i rem'ber a proverb or a line, i should say, im not sure.

"I may have lost the war but not the battle"
(Sorry folks i mite have interchanged war n battle im not sure. the line s something like this :D )

Sometimes accept defeat but make sure u use it optimistically !! Improve and increase ur hardwork !!! Use it to ignite the fire in u to acheive more. Use it to make sure tat u have learnt from ur mistakes!!

Life itself is a big experience!! Every moment passed is past !! Cherish it! Live it !! i saw a movie sterday, JAB WE MET, a hindi movie. Started off differently and i hpnd to find some very very good dialogs in it!
Heroine says " no one knows wat is there for us tom, Live now. Live the way u like it to.Dnt complain later tat u didnt enjoy life! so Live now n live it to the max".

Im planning to do the same ! Everythin will pass. Time is the best medicine. Sometimes u miss the bus due to ur mistake and sometimes due to someone else! but god has created the beautiful nature and he makes sure everyone gets wat they deserve !

Its all written so dnt worry u too got ur time !!

Life is a wheel n it will rotate. Good times will come just wait for the it !!!

After all, every dog has its Day !!

Cheers :)

4 Comments:

At 6:07 AM, Blogger Titaxy said...

i totally agree with "Live now. Live the way u like it to. Live now n live it to the max"........:)....

a very nice philosophical post, btw..;)

 
At 9:18 PM, Blogger Vicky Goes Crazy... said...

hi v...s

ya live now n live it king size .. u never fail u c .. all those hurdles have taught me a lot of things ... it has made me feel more confident infact n to more extent i feel i now understand how corporate world is :) i hope sincerely tat u learn frmo my mistake .. trust no one other than urself in a corporate world buddy this s the lesson i have learnt in my 4 yrs of exp :D ..

 
At 6:23 AM, Blogger Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

how did i miss this post :O

 
At 3:57 PM, Blogger Vicky Goes Crazy... said...

ya u did dear .. sry its been very long since i blogged as i have been roaming a lot between lots of places :)

 

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